A man and his wife were driving down a curvy mountainous road. The wife was driving. They were arguing. All of a sudden the man yells out "Pig!" The wife looks at him in disdain and says "Jerk" and then immediately she ran into a large hog crossing the street.
How many
situations are like this? How many times do we go off half-cocked? How many
times do we perpetuate arguments and differences of opinion because we fail to consider other viewpoints? Are we really always right and the other people are
always wrong? Are there no truths somewhere in between?
Consider all
this in the context of the coming election. The majority of things we read and
see today are not involved with anyone trying to convince us as to the best way
to move forward in a very complicated world. Much of what we hear is personal
attack – Hillary is a liar and a corrupt person. Trump is dumber than the Three
Stooges and will immediately start World War III. When I discuss the election
with my liberal friends most of them imply that if I vote for Trump I will have
willingly sided with the devil. My conservative friends
explain that voting for Hillary makes me no longer worthy of salvation. Either way I won't be invited to many parties.
To me all
this seems sad and worrisome. It is sad because it further divides us. We
are not debating policy – rather we are making our differences more
vivid and rigid. It is worrisome because it promises to continue to prevent us
from seeing the world as it really is and trying to fashion remedies for our
most challenging problems.
Before you
start reminding me of all the evils that the other guys stand for and roasting me
over a gumbaya-less campfire, let me explain a little more from where I come.
While it is true that the people on the other side of the political aisle see the world differently and say
some scary things, let’s try to image what we have in common.
· We all, except for Charlie the Tuna,
are part of the human race.
· If we have families we want them to
be happy and safe.We want our children to enjoy youthful experiences but also to learn responsibility
· We want access to high quality
healthcare that is affordable.
If we have children we want them to grow up learning and to be prepared for life.
We don’t want to wear gas masks to work and we want good jobs.
If we have children we want them to grow up learning and to be prepared for life.
We don’t want to wear gas masks to work and we want good jobs.
· We want to be a positive force in the
global economy while recognizing that there always seem to be some countries or
parts of countries that want to hurt us.
· We believe that governments have
proper roles in society but the positive outcomes of government are not automatic.
· We know that governments, business
firms, labor unions, and football teams are composed of mostly good people but
to some extent they are populated by some really evil and corrupt
individuals.
Some of you
are gagging so I will stop. I could go on. And on. And on. But its true. We have many common goals. I know – there is a
conspiracy of progressives who want us all to become Communists. I know – there
are many conservatives who want to preserve only the fittest and the rest be damned. I don’t disagree. There are some people like that. But what I also
know is that most of us just want to get up in the morning, eat our Post
Toasties, send our kids to school, go to work, and start planning weekend
parties!
We definitely disagree on the particulars of how to attain the above outcomes. We even disagree about the nature of the human spirit. But come on -- in a country of almost 330 million people, not everyone is going to see things the same way. My way or the highway is not going to work.
We definitely disagree on the particulars of how to attain the above outcomes. We even disagree about the nature of the human spirit. But come on -- in a country of almost 330 million people, not everyone is going to see things the same way. My way or the highway is not going to work.
But we can’t make any real headway because more and more of us get processed by the dividers who, by
the way, get money and power by continuing to divide us.
We don’t
have time to waste. As we hurl insults at each other, Rome burns. How do we
deal effectively with ISIS? With other national enemies? National debt? Two-way racism? Economic growth? Crime? Security? and so on?
Each of the parties
will try to convince us that their way is the only way as they use every trick
in the book to turn us against their evil competitors. But the evil competitors
are mostly just like us. They want to see problems solved and get on with their
lives. And worse, as each side slowly creates enemies lists we make it
increasingly impossible to see our problems objectively and to find solutions that
make any sense. We are on a path to Hell.
Ozzie and
Harriet would be very disappointed in us.